Child
development experts continue to disagree about the 'right' age for
a child to start school, but there is an emerging belief that numerous
other factors, not just chronological age, should be used as criteria
for school entry.
As
children grow, they develop at different rates so age may not be
the best indicator of school readiness. You must consider all aspects
of your child's development because if they enter school before
they are ready to cope their chances of failure and low self-esteem
increase dramatically. They can lose confidence and feel they can't
cope.
What Should
I Be Looking For In My Child?
While
there's no perfect formula that determines when children are truly
ready for kindergarten, you can use this list to see how well your
child is doing in acquiring the skills found on most kindergarten
checklists.
Print
this list and check the skills your child has mastered. Then recheck
them every month to see what additional skills your child can accomplish
easily.
Young
children change so fast - if they can't do something this week,
they may be able to do it a few weeks later.
Listen
to stories without interrupting
Recognize rhyming sounds
Pay attention for short periods of time to adult-directed
tasks
Understand actions have both causes and effects
Show understanding of general times of day
Cut with scissors
Trace basic shapes
Begin to share with others
Start to follow rules
Be able to recognize authority
Manage bathroom needs
Button shirts, pants, coats, and zip up zippers
Begin to control oneself
Separate from parents without being upset
Speak understandably
Talk in complete sentences of five to six words
Look at pictures and then tell stories
Identify rhyming words
Identify the beginning sound of some words
Identify alphabet letters
Recognize some common sight words like "stop"
Sort similar objects by color, size, and shape
Recognize groups of one, two, three, four, and five objects
Count to ten
Throw, catch & bounce a ball
If
your child has acquired most of the skills on this list and will
be at least five years old at the start of the summer before he
or she starts kindergarten, he or she is probably ready for kindergarten.
If
you are concerned that your child hasn't grasped a lot of these
skills then the Get
Ready For School programs can help with the development
of their Fine Motor, Gross Motor, Visual Perception and School Skills.
Remember
that what teachers want to see on the first day of school are children
who are healthy, mature, capable and eager to learn.
Print
out the Get Ready For School Checklist
and take that with you when you meet the teacher before your child
starts school, or better still, take your child's completed Get
Ready For School Workbook
so that they know what areas you are working on.
Resource:
Peggy Gisler, Ed.S. and Marge Eberts, Ed.S.
Is My Child
Mature Enough To Start Kindergarten?
Preschool
and school are very different. Preschool has a higher staff-child
ratio and is usually a cosy and caring atmosphere. School has larger
buildings, a more regimented routine, larger and older children,
with more noise and congestion. To a child these differences are
important and can question their sense of security.
An
important element in deciding School Readiness is asking yourself
whether your child is emotionally mature enough to start school.
You should also consider the length of their attention span. Ask
yourself these questions:
Is
your child eager to participate, wanting to learn?
Are
they interested, motivated and confident?
Are
they willing to attempt new experiences?
Can
your child co-operate with other children?
Are
they able to handle the rough emotional trials - cliques &
name calling - that is usually part of school life?
How
do they handle these situations? Do they react by either falling
apart or becoming a bully?
Can
they negotiate with friends?
Is
your child able to respond to all adults? A lot of schools rely
on volunteers to help in the classroom. It is essential that your
child has learnt to listen and respond to adults who are not their
parents.
Can
your child handle large group situations?
Can
your child sit still for 10 minutes?
Can
they do it in a group of 15-30 other children?
Can
they go to the toilet independtly?
Can
they handle their lunch and look after their own belongings?
The
Get Ready For School
Program is designed to develop age-appropriate self-care, play and
school related skills. One of the focuses is on developing concentration
times when school children need to learn to sit quietly and work
on various projects.
Children
will develop academically at different stages but if there are too
many children in the classroom who can't sit quietly, aren't keen
to learn, respect their fellow classmates, their teachers and other
adults in the classroom then much learning will simply never happen.
Is
Your Child Concerned About Leaving Pre-School To Start Big School?
You
can downplay their apprehension about leaving their preschool &
starting kindergarten by some positive reinforcement and having
them focus on some of their personal strengths.
Pick
out some of the skills on the list above and reassure them that
they would be a good student because they already know (for example):
their
ABCs
how to count
how to write and spell their name
Point
out they have friends in preschool so making new friends would
be easy in big school.
Reminding
them that they may be a great tree climber or good at catching
a ball, etc, will also help.
Take
photographs of your child's new school and glue them into their
Get Ready For School workbook.
That way, when they are showing Grandma or other family members
all of their work they will also be able to proudly show off their
new school.
You
could also go through our First
Day Of School list which will further help you reinforce
your child's readiness to start school.
or
have your
child take the
Or
go to simple
suggestions for other ideas on
getting your child Ready For School.